I don't do casual that well. Corporate, sure, as the name of this blog implies, I can do just fine, with my obligatory goth twist. But weekend wear, out-of-the office clothes are getting difficult, especially as I get older. Throwing on a T-shirt & jeans isn't the most stylish of options in your 20s, but it's not unexpected either.
However, in your 30s & particularly your 40s, um, that outfit can look a little sad. If you're not extremely careful, you may look like you're trying too hard to relive your youth, or you look like you're a sloppy loser who hasn't grown up. Sure, every now & then, if you're dashing off to the grocery store, it doesn't matter, but there's so many occasions that not looking like a big teenager or a slob has benefits.
Here's one of my attempts (photographed several months ago) at a subtle upgrade...
What I'm wearing:
Black knit top with ruched corsage detail, NY & Co.
Black jeans, Calvin Klein
Stripey socks, unknown brand
Black flats, Aldo
Black & skull bead necklace, DisneyLand
Gunmetal & rhinestone hoop earrings, NY & Co.
Burgundy flower hair pin, random accessory store
Looks great, I love that shirt. This is relevant for me today - I'm doing something today that jeans & a t-shirt would be an appropriate outfit for, but I will also be meeting my new partner's sister for the first time & want to look nice.
ReplyDeleteI was just about to go evaluate my wardrobe to see what shirt I could pair with the jeans to look a little more dressy but not overly dressy. Hope I can manage it as well as you have.
You nailed it. One of the big things is to go for a shirt with a detail or twist - like the neckline and ribbon on your top - which "mature" a t-shirt. Darkwash jeans without a lot of butt ornamentation or factory wear also elevate the jeans'n't look.
ReplyDeleteI love how the Disney parks sell awesome skull jewelry. Pirates and the Haunted Mansion are gifts that just keep on giving.
Love the top! I think you do casual pretty darn well. :)
ReplyDeleteI agree. Love the stylish top and your hair.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad I found your blog.
You look absolutely fabulous! Yep, a definite "I'm running some errands and stopping to get a latte with some gal pals at the local B&N" look. LOVE IT. I love the way the rosettes in your hair are offset from those on your blouse!
ReplyDeleteA raving success!
I love the coherence between your top and the hair styling/accessory. I definitely makes the jeans/tee-shirt look more polished.
ReplyDeleteAgree with everyone about your hair and the tee shirt. Looks great together.
ReplyDeleteVery sexy, edgy, casual grown-up look! I definitely don't spend enough time at NY&Co. :) I'm pretty sure I'd do just about anything for that top!
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