Monday, February 28, 2011

Pink & Mixy

Look at me, mixing patterns again! Crazy, no? But only a little bit, so it's not like I'm really onboard with that little trend (I still think that mixing patterns often looks like someone got dressed in the dark ;-). But when it comes to pink, more is better, imnsho.


What I'm wearing:
Pink print cardigan, Chadwicks
Black corduroy skirt, H&M
Black tights, Calvin Klein
Black & pink pumps, Irregular Choice (closeups here)
Pink & black stripey jersey scarf, Express
Black & pink Victorian-esque earrings, random accessory store
Large black vintage-esque ring, Icing

Thursday, February 24, 2011

At the Office in Body, if Not in Spirit

My brain is still back in Kauai, *sigh*. We arrived home late last night, & I had to get up early today for the carpool, so no outfit post. Besides, I'm bundled up in a sweater & jeans because it's cold here, especially compared to the balmy Garden Isle. In fact, snow is predicted for Silicon Valley -- like, flakes might actually touch the valley floor (not just sit on the hills, which happens every couple of winters). This hasn't happened since I was a kid in the 1970s. Omg!

Good thing I'm working from home tomorrow & can bundle up with the kitties. And with my new espresso maker ... I received my 10-year-anniversary gift from the company a month early. Wow. Fabulous timing & a nice way to stave off the "boo hoo, back at work after vacay" feeling. I can't complain too much.

While I dream of brewing my Kauai beans, I'll leave you with a few iPhone pix until I get the full TropiGoth outfit photos of the real camera.

On my birthday at Roy's Grill -
they printed a special menu message!

The view from our condo.
On the beach, last day in paradise.

Thanks for all the comments everyone left while I was gone! I'll be catching up with your posts for a while.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

CorpGoth Looks on Non-CorpGoths

We're not the only ones! I've spied some classic CorpGoth fashions on non-goth bloggers in the past months. Of course, their outfits look less gothy without that extra something special we'd add -- like black or candy-colored hair, more eyeliner, darker lipstick, different jewelry. But the clothing combinations practically scream "CorpGoth" to me. Here are some great examples...

E. of AcademiChic wore a stripey top, black skirt, & black lace tights layered over red tights. I'd bet that every goth gal has a top & skirt like that -- but the layered tights are inspiring!

Sal of Already Pretty wore a lavender (reads pink in the photo to me) leather blazer with a black tunic & a polka-dot skirt & tall black leather boots. I would wear every part of this outfit, as-is, in this outfit or mixed into my wardrobe.

Kasmira of What I Wore Today wore a ruffle-shoulder stripey sweater, black skirt, belt, blue booties, & tons of pearls. After seeing her post, I actually went to H&M to find this sweater & had a long debate with myself about whether or not I needed another stripey sweater (I have a couple, so I didn't buy it, & of course, now I wish I had).

Big Beautyful Mess has a number of gothable ensembles, but I particularly like this black & white top paired with a black pencil skirt & the oh-so-chick red gloves. How cool is that? Very!

Audi at Fashion for Nerds wears a lot of goth-friendly outfits (even tho' she doesn't wear a lot of black), so here's just some faves.  This punky skirt by Marc Jacobs is paired with a red top, black cardigan, & tall black boots, very sassy. Her relaxed suit is a stellar example of excellent proportion & subtle color gradations. And then a classic little sweater & print skirt ensemble, which has a retro-'50s feel & is easily doable in goth-style too.

These are just a few of my faves -- let me know if you've seen other great CorpGoth looks on non-goths in the fashion blogosphere!

Friday, February 18, 2011

Fashion Beauty Friend Friday - 02.18.11

FBFF Questions for 02.18.11 - This week, the topic is body image, courtesy of ModlyChic.

1. Since you started blogging has your image of yourself changed?
Yes & no. I think I've become more aware of myself & what styles & shapes work on me, how to play up my best features. I'm no more or less conscious of things like my size, for example, but I do know better how to, say, wear a belt to draw attention to my waist but not my belly.

2. Are you self-conscious about any aspect of yourself? If so, do you go out of your way to avoid it or do you post it/talk about it anyway?
I don't mind talking about anything about me -- again, with size, I think it's pretty damn obvious that I'm not tall & willowy, I have big ol' curves & not just in the hotsy-totsy va-va-voom way. I have a big gut & butt & boobs, so I am not like the those teeny little "petite bloggers" even tho' I'm their height. I don't mind, & if you do, that's your problem.

3. Based on how you are feeling now, what do you think the future holds in the evolution of your body image?
I suppose I could get even hotter, but I'm kinda rockin' my own world right now ;-)

Y'know, about five or so years ago, I did lose a bunch of weight thru Weight Watchers & jogging like crazy. I hated it, but I did it because I thought it was the "right thing" to do. But that really screwed up my body & was totally unsustainable. It made me horribly unhappy & kicked off a host of medical problems, even tho' it wasn't a crash diet. I don't think my body wanted to be that thin. My mind sure as hell didn't. I only have one photo from my lowest weight, & I had "lollipop head syndrome," where my head looked too big for my body. It was icky. While I may have a double chin now, I have a more proportional figure again, & I'm a million times happier & I feel far more confident.

4. Do you photograph yourself for your blog? If so, how do you feel about the experience when you're having your picture taken? If you choose not to post pictures of yourself, what prompted that decision?
My blog is definitely an "outfit a day" blog, so photos are crucial. The worst part is the poor lighting around my house. Body image doesn't play into it much, altho' dammit, why can't I smile in front of the camera when it's just me & the tripod? Don't know. I also have a problem posing myself in non-boring ways. Other people can do it for me (a few wonderful costume photographers have in the past), but solo on a timer, I lose all imagination.

5. What would you want every person who struggles with body image to take to heart?
I always come back to RuPaul: If you can't love yourself, how'n hell are you gonna love somebody else? Can I get an amen? Just try it. What's the worst that will happen if you look in the mirror & say "I'm fucking HOT!" If people disagree with you, so what?

People disagree with me on lots of things -- from politics to what's the best book ever written. Does that mean I succumb to their opinions? No. I persist in my belief that climate change is real & that J.R.R.R. Tolkien was a true genius. Likewise, I can have my own opinion about my body & looks, & that matters as more than what anyone else thinks. Keep thinking your own thoughts long enough, & you'll believe.

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Tips for Making Fashion Greener

For a change of pace, I thot I'd address the idea of eco-friendly fashion. See, a big part of my job is editing Yahoo! Green (the #1 source for environmental content on the Web, according to ComScore). So environmental concerns are top of mind.

And yet, I have always adored style, clothing, & self-expression through what I wear. This necessitates a certain amount of using resources that are not always that kind to the planet. I was raised by hippies, but I'm not going to live in an off-grid yurt any time soon.

I'm all about balance in my life. I do a lot of very eco-friendly things -- like the fact that I have never had a driver's license despite living in suburban California since I was 5. I get around by foot, public transit, & carpool, & our one household car is a Prius. So right there, my carbon footprint is smaller than most Americans. Thus, I don't feel too bad about buying a bit of lipstick & some cute shoes, especially when I sometimes find the shoes at the thrift store ;-)

With this in mind, here are some of my steps towards making fashion greener, which mostly don't have to do with shopping...

1. Wash your clothes carefully.
Often overlooked in discussions of organic cotton & fair-trade labor is the simple concept of making the clothes already in your closet last longer. Reduce your need for new clothes by taking good care of your wardrobe now.

Learn how to treat your garments right. Start by reading care labels, but also do some research. Many items may say "dry clean only," just because that's easiest for the manufacturer to list. What is the fiber content? Do a web search & find out how to best treat that material. Test how water & gentle detergent react on a small, inconspicuous part of the garment. Dry-cleaning is a chemically intensive process that's pretty nasty on the environment, plus it's expensive! You may be able to hand-wash an item at home.

Consider washing garments less often. If you don't see stains or dirt, do the smell test -- if clothes don't smell like the last person who wore 'em, they don't need to be dunked in water (if you're really concerned, have someone else smell the garment; we get used to our own smell).

Also, when loading clothes in a washing machine, button up buttons, zip up zippers, and turn inside-out anything with decorative trim or beading or a screen-print. All of these tricks will help clothes last longer. Cold-water washing saves energy (& money, if you own the washer itself) & helps dye colors from fading, so black garments stay dark & brights stay bright.

Don't over-dry clothes in the dryer because heat is damaging. Use the lowest heat setting for the shortest time possible. Take clothes out immediately & hang up items (this prevents wrinkles & saves your time from ironing). Line-dry anything delicate, such as lingerie, silks, anything that can snag, & non-synthetic sweaters.

Here are more laundry day tips from Yahoo! Green.

2. Repair the clothes you already have.
Learn to make small repairs at home. Sewing on buttons, mending small tears, fixing zippers -- these are relatively easy fixes that anyone with fingers & eyesight can learn to do. If you don't have someone nearby to teach you, search YouTube for a video tutorial. The tools are far less expensive than buying a new shirt! I'm not into patching up truly tattered garments (& I won't socks), but many little repairs can extend the life of clothes.

Don't forget about shoes either. Clean & polish those babies every so often. And if the soles are worn down to almost nothing, take the shoes to a cobbler. New heels cost the fraction of a new pair of shoes -- especially for high heels which often have the tiny end heel worn away. That's a fast, cheap fix. I've already written about the joys of cobblers!

3. Organize your closet.
Knowing what you have & where to find it can keep you from buying more stuff. Admit it, you've bought the same type of garment over & over again. Or worse, you've stood in front of the mirror on a workday & felt like you have nothing to wear even tho' your closet & dressers are stuffed.

Take a weekend to go through what you own, edit out what you're not really using, & organize the pieces you love. When you can find everything, you won't buy repeats & you won't feel like your clothes are fighting you.

Go a step further and plan a few staple outfits. If necessary, write these down. Or just put the items together in one place. This top + that bottom + those shoes + one awesome accessory = perfect outfit for a manic Monday. Done.

Check out these excellent posts on organizing your clothes from Already Pretty: Grouping items in your closetaccessory organization, shopping in your own closet, & effective wardrobe inventories.

4. Update your current wardrobe with stylish makeovers.
This is an advanced extension of #2 -- replace all the buttons on a top (which I do all the time, best seen on this sweater), and it will look like a whole new blouse / jacket / sweater. Sew trim on a skirt hem for a different look (like I did here). Belt a sweater that you've never worn belted. Trim trousers into walking shorts (as shown on Academichic, among other places). Cut a long jacket into a cropped jacket. Sew old jeans into a jeans skirt. Overdye a pale shirt to a dark color (or tie-dye!).

If there are items in your closet you're dissatisfied with, adding trim or cutting them up can only improve them. You may have to learn some new skills, but making over garments can be very satisfying & provide a creative outlet. You might get hooked!

Check out this article I wrote for Yahoo! Green about refashioning clothes (the article also has links for clothing repair how-tos).

6. Shop thrift stores.
Everyone knows this by now, but it's worth repeating. Scour Savers, Goodwill, Salvation Army, & whatever local thrift stores you can find. You do have to hunt, & there's no guarantee you'll find something for you or in your size. But keep going back.

Look for upmarket labels because you'll get longer life out of them. Avoid Wal-Mart & Target brands at the thrift -- if it originally cost $8, why pay $5 for it used? I don't see the point, unless it is literally new with tags. But Gap, Banana Republic, Ann Taylor, & the like are good deals at thrift stores because the styles tend to be classic & the quality is more dependable. These are also styles that lend themselves to making over (see #4).

That's just my top six. I'm open to more ideas. Whatcha got?

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Out With a Bang

I am so lucky to have fabulously skilled friends who I can barter things with. Like this dress -- I had the pattern but knew I'd never get around to sewing it for myself. Donna found the fabric & offered to sew it because she had the time. I received the result on Saturday. Thanks, hon!


What I'm wearing:
Pink, grey, & white retro print dress, made by Donna of Original Sin Designs
Black wool ruffled bolero sweater, Kohl's
Black tights, Calvin Klein
Black pumps with silver buckle accent, Kenneth Cole
Silver chunky bead choker, Target
Sparkly dangle earrings, random accessory store
Giant faux-diamond cocktail ring, Icing
Pink & black flower hair pin, Icing

I've got a couple non-outfit posts scheduled for while I'm on vacay. And then, at some point, I hope to go nuts with a bunch of TropiGoth photos...

Monday, February 14, 2011

Rain & Romance

The sunny NorCal spring has come to a (temporary?) end -- today I awoke to grey drizzle, meaning I could only use the porch for a morning photo. The outfit I planned for Valentine's Day has just a touch of old-school (read: 1980s) romance. Nothing too obvious, no red or pink or hearts. Just a bit of RomantiGoth around the edges, plus it's comfy enough that I can wear it for the dinner at home my sweet hubby is making tonight.


What I'm wearing:
Floral print knit top, H&M
Black gauzey skirt, Rampage
Black elastic faux-corset belt, Torrid
Dark grey denim bell-sleeved blazer, Newport News
Black tights, Calvin Klein
Burgundy faux-suede boots, DSW
Chunky gunmetal & rhinestone choker, random accessory stor
Gunmetal hoop earrings, Icing
Sparkly gunmetal cocktail ring, Icing
Dark burgundy lipstick, Chanel "Vamp"

Do you dress for holidays?  Did you do anything specific for Valentine's Day?

notice that tablecloth? yep, it's the same type as the
cloth that I made a skirt out of!